I see your points, thanks for responding! I was an elementary school sub for a bit and def see your Lord of the Flies comparison 🤣😅

But I do still maintain that who's the dominant person is probably largely determined by the adults who're teaching them what's okay and what's not, as well has how they treat each kid in the family -- the kids on top get lessons from the parents on top, and even in those families the one most like the dominant parent will be on top there, and so high school begins before kindergarten and ends neverrrrrrrrr, haha, oy.